
When you recognise what the feeling is actually about — something else becomes possible. In the previous piece “So What’s Wrong with It? “, I wrote about a particular kind of discomfort — the irritation or moral unease that can arrive when someone else does something freely that you have not yet allowed yourself to

The misunderstanding We tend to think of discernment as a cognitive act. Something you perform at a crossroads: weigh the options, choose the better one, move on. And sometimes it is that. But the kind of discernment that matters — the kind that tells you whether to stay or leave, whether to trust or